Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Sucking Cock....

I was in a 4some with a friend of mine and a couple I recently met from craig's list and it was fun. I'll write about it later.

As I saw my buddy sucking cock (he obviously being Bi), I always wondered what it was like and I never really found it appealing.
With some rare exceptions, I don't find the male body all that appealing. In fact, I kinda' find it almost comedic and wonder why women don't giggle at even the most fit males when we (as a group) get nude in front of them.

Now, I understand that there are women that find giving a blowjob is more of a chore than something pleasurable. on the other hand, I've found women that give out blowjobs like handshakes and find them EXTREMELY pleasurable. Like many things, different people like different things.

Of course, I feel differently about the female body, but this post isn't about that.

I know I have at least a fourf readers, one of them a female at least and what I'm curious about is to what makes it appealing? Is it the texture, the sense of power (or submission as some say), the fun, the juicy center?

I tried asking my friend and several girls about it, but they don't have an appropriate answer. Of course, I think it could be that I'm standing there in front of them thinking I'm judging, which or not.
It's simply a curiousity I have about about the human animal and how they think. It's my weakness. I figure if I add it on here, I'll get some straight answers (even from Bi Men) on why it's so appealing or repulsive. Even have a new poll. :) Feel free to answer or leave a comment.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

It's my orgy and she'll come if I want to!

You know, one of the most irritating phrases in online dating is "BBW".

I'm not saying BEING a "Big Beautiful Woman" is a bad thing, I just HATE that phrase. Particularly when a woman feel compelled to use it because she's 20-30 lbs overweight.
You're not BBW, you're PW: "Pleasantly Plump Woman", or as those outside of Hollywood would consider "normal weight."

The reasoning for this little rant against BBW (the phrase, not the women), is that I recently received a letter from a woman asking if BBW's are "Welcome." Not to be discriminatory towards those that are overly obese, I requested a picture. Let's face it, Ugly comes in all weight classes. No matter the fact that a guy is guaranteed he's going to get laid, if someone some jacked up teeth, no man is going to let their cock on any end of that....

Anyway, the photo that greeted me a few minutes later was of an attractive older woman that seemed to be only relatively few modest pounds overweight. When we talked on the phone a few minutes later, she confessed that her age was a bit older (upper 40's) and that she was concerned that she wouldn't be welcome in a situation.

RUBBISH! A woman will be more than welcome if she is older or is a bit PPW. IF the guys that are there don't want to touch her, then not only will they not be asked for future parties, but will more than likely requested that they leave.

To prove my point I said to her, "Look, I'll be the first one on your ass to lick you and fuck it and that is all there is to it! If the other guys don't want that, then I'll be drilling you the entire time!"

The fact that she broke out in gales of laughter helped break any worries and committed to going.

She was also concerned that she would be the only BBW or older woman there and that I mentioned that she won't be and mentioned that my Ex Girlfriend's best friend will be there.

Silence.

"Hello, Are you there SD?"

"Are you serious?"

"Yeah. Why?"

"You are the bravest man on the planet or the biggest fool.....How.."

I gave her a BS answer and then changed the subject for a few before I had to leave.


Yes, my Ex girlfriend's (Sometimes lover) best friend is going to be there. She was interested in watching the Gangbang AND the Bi Party.

Did I forget to mention that? I guess so.

It started a few months ago when I went to entertain my XGF, while I was laying in bed with her (fully clothed) , she (now known as..."L" (Because I don't know her name)), was making a nuisance of herself by not leaving and BSing with her and me.

Anyway, trying to cheer up XBF, I invited her to both parties and casually mentioned that "L" would go. I told her (half in jest), tell her and give my number and she can go.
The rest of the conversation was "Blah blah blah" and immediately forgot about the whole thing.

Four days later I got a call from "L" wanting to know the details and promptly gave them to her.
An HOUR after THAT phonecall, "XBF" called and said "You do know you two are off limits to each other, right?"

"Scout's Honor."
"You were never a scout."
"So?"
"Try better."
"I swear on the bible"
"You're agnostic."
"Swear on my mother's grave?"
"She's still alive."
"Knock on wood?"
"You're not talking about knocking her with YOUR wood, are you?"
"No, but clever."
"Just don't want to know about it."

Oh yeah, this party should be interesting.

Friday, November 14, 2008

I must be going insane....

Well, I did it.

I started a new party, this one is going to be a "BI" party and put up a CL post accordingly. This will be a bit different by the fact that ladies can come and watch, which more than likely will be actual participants.

That's the way it usually winds up.

On the other party front, my nerves are still on the edge as one woman wants to talk to another. One is iffy because her escort won't be able to make it, and the other is an unknown. While two others are expected to show up, I hedged my bets a bit and put out a new ad for the party.

Ohwell, I guess I'm going to start drinking this weekend, maybe see if I can get a hook up.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

ANOTHER party and an update...

Believe it or not, one of my friends is trying to convince me to have an all male party the following weekend. I have to think about it a bit, but a few of the regulars might be more interested in this party, though.


Additionally, I went ahead and set the date and location of the party. the 5th of December. I sent out a bunch of emails informing everyone invited to attend and immediately was greeted by 2 emails of a couple of guys that are declining.

This is the time I start getting nervous.

As the tired old joke goes, "What if they threw an orgy but nobody came?"
I know it's not going to happen, it hasn't happened in the number of parties I have put together, but it is STILL a bit unnerving.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Emails, Dates, and Dumfucks.

I went ahead and put together an email to those that I think would play nicely with each other and sent them an email.
Let's see how well they listen and how well they follow instructions;
Basically the email consisted of two dates that I haven't decided yet, so I figure I'd make a poll to see what date would be the best. Since these were friday dates, I also added an option asking if that they wanted a saturday, I was open to that as well.

Why Friday? Fairly simple; it would allow people an excuse that they were "staying late" for a meeting or whatever. I always made it clear that a shower was available to them if they desired. As far as "Running home" after work to go to the party, I never saw a point in it. Neither did any of the regulars as they simply shown up in whatever they were wearing, showered and joined the party!

To steal an insulting term from OEN; the men are being fuckwits sometimes. A number of the men I had emailed were notified that if they had a problem with a BBW, that they had to let me know (I would have kicked them out immediately). Most replied they were cool with it. What caught my attention is that two of them INSISTED on seeing photos.
I wrote back that it is not up to ME hand out photos that belonged to me.
The reply caught me a bit by surprise, "Well, could you DESCRIBE them?"

I mean, REALLY! They're going to get laid and have a good time and they INSIST on knowing who they're going to screw if they meet THEIR standards? Umm.....no.
Delete.

Anyway, let's see how people respond to this email. It's time to start getting nervous again.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Looking for a few more women....

You know, I just put up another ad for the party that I've been planning. Having been through enough men profiles (70), I had finally decided delete the ad and try to focus on getting another couple of girls. So far the girls are just fine, but I always like to have a bit extra.

The ads from the guys are hysterical, when I wrote the ads I never mentioned what sex I was, yet they all seem to act like I'm female and the men responded in kind.
One of the things that always amazes me is how men always feel like the fewer the wording, the more likely they'll get chosen or if they go out of the specs that I made (in this case 25-45), they seem think that I am casting for a wider net.
No less then 8 men who were 21 (2 being 18!) which I rejected outright. Seems when they are that young, they seem to be a bit too full of themselves and don't play nice with others. The older men aren't quite as bad, and I'll be inclined to include them as long as they don't LOOK old.
I'm fortunate in the fact that I look younger than my age by at least 5 years. That's no fair exaggeration, but enough of about that....

It amazes me how the male half of the species even manages to get laid, but I've gotten the distinct impression that men that troll CL (and other sites) are incapable of proper social interaction, manners, and propriety that women seem to deserve.

Good heavens! Has good manners escaped society completely?

The couple of ladies that DID respond seemed a bit odd, but I'll keep feeling them out and see if their intentions are genuine. On the other hand, I'm sure they are rather suspect with ME! I mean, they don't know me from Adam and putting quite a bit of trust in me that I'm not sort of cad.

Hopefully I can get some "regulars" out of this party, this hunting business sucks.

Monday, November 3, 2008

The women are there......now for the men...

Well, having lined up about 5 women, it is now getting down to looking for the men. I'll probably start the hunt for it in the next few days and see what the crowd is like. I'm picker about the men then the women. For some reason, there always seems to be an overabundance of jerks that try to get in.

This is where the phone interviews come in handy. I have a particularly good knack of picking out the weasels from getting in. I'm not like some of the OTHER gangbangs that CHARGE people $20-100 bucks to come to the party. Mine are free, now if you want to contribute to the room, then that's up to you, but that's pretty much how far it goes as far as "Money" goes.

It also amazes me how some of the guy's behavior is.

For one thing, they're getting laid. Now, I've had some VERY attractive women, but I've also had women that were less than stellar but generally had a just as good an attitude, if not outright enthusasism, for the party.

Some of the guys expect that the women that show up should look like Angelina Jolee. But if they had that kind of option, they wouldn't be at a gangbang to begin with.
MEN! I wonder why women tolerate us sometimes.

Now, you are all (all 4 of you reading this blog) on why it is taken so long to get this started. Simple. As much as I like getting laid and seeing naked women, life has this particularly annoying habit of rearing its ugly head.

Don't like it? Too bad, so sad.