Everyone needs a hobby...

About me:

There has been a few people that have written to me asking about my reasoning and life beyond the parties and I will oblige.

I am a straight 40 year-old hispanic man who is single of fairly unremarkable in appearance. I'm not TOO overweight, but my strength is my ability to be able to read people and to make them comfortable around me.

This is not to say that this translates to picking up women is a cinch, but I don't go out with a goal to "hook up" with someone, maybe to just meet someone new and see where it goes

I am, like most males, incredibly dense when picking up signals once they get closer to me emotionally. A case of far-sightedness when it comes to reading them, I guess.

This not to say I've been single all my life, but I have a daughter that has recently moved to another city, quite literally the same month she graduated from high school, but that's another story. My dating up until now has been filled with women of all walks of life, including three serious relationships, quite a number of dates and a surprising amount of FWBs and one-night-stands. Don't ask me for my number, don't count and its not polite to ask.

At some point I might go through the list as I remember them from the haze of the various orgies, threesomes, foursomes, bars, S&M clubs, and internet encounters.

Don't expect world class writing; i type this out on a PDA and do brief edits at home to disguise my writing style. The same includes for world shattering insights on things about sex, being single, or how to pickup women. Quite frankly, i don't think i am that bright. At least I am not as bright or eloquent as OEN.

You probably asked yourself about the "disguise my writing style" part. Let's say that i knew quite a few people in the corporate world, and i literally meet, on a professional level, hundreds of people a month. Don't be surprised if that it is me you encountered in your daily life and not even know it. You may see me at a club and I will literally be there to people watch and have a drink. More than a few people have commented that I don't look my age and can easily pass for a thirty something. I think those people are on crack or some other type of legal (or not) medications.

As far as my parties go, I don't know if you can call me a voyeur, a sexual addict, or any number of psychological maladies that people will armchair quarterback (speculate).

The people at my parties are those that I meet at a variety of places; craig's list, friends, former girlfriends, publications, and people I randomly meet. Like I said, I put people at ease.

But as to why I host these parties?

Everyone needs a hobby.