Party updates, frustrations, and realizations...

Not too long ago, Starfish and I have made three crucial decisions:

• When.
• Where.
• What kind of party.

The where and when is something I'll let Starfish reveal in due time, but to be honest with you, I'm ITCHING to let you know.  Believe it or not, I enjoy throwing Bi-Parties.
As I may have explained before, Bi parties are generally more successful and easier to put together because even if no women show up, the men can all have some fun.*  In this case however, to be totally honest, Starfish has a strong indication will attend the party.**


As it currently stands, she seems to be doing quite a bit of the workload when it comes to the various ads, screenings, and emails and putting people at ease.
It seems that she has come to understand why I only throw these parties together semi-regularly, but also seems to know the fun and frustrations of doing so.  
There seems to be an added benefit of her potentially finding a female playmate before and after the party, but there seems to be some red flags that we talked about.  Of course people that initially seem to be flaky might surprise you in the end, but it's better to have your guard up and be pleasantly surprised than to be crushed for not seeing it ahead of time.

Now that I'm thinking about it, I guess I better get creative and post a few more ads. 


*except me, being the straight one.  But I just have fun throwing them. go fig.
**Not doubting her NOT showing up, but stuff happens. Either way, the party will continue.

Apprehensions Part 1

The party planning is going on swimmingly. There are more guys coming out of the woodwork willing to bust a nut than I could shake a stick at. The ladies on the other hand are a bit tougher to crack. There have been just a few. The one that has my interest beyond all belief has brought up a couple interesting points that I am a bit apprehensive about.

First is that I've never even had a threesome much less group sex. I want to be able to take anything and everything but who the heck knows if my body will hold out. I guess I was pretty smart when I chose this to be a biparty. I guess if my pussy fails they can entertain themselves!

I'm apprehensive about protocol also. Everything in this world has a set of unwritten rules. First dates. Affairs. One night stands. I'm sure group sex is no different. Do you use your real name? Does anyone care what your name is? Is it ok to prefer fucking one guy for a longer time than the others? Do I get to take breaks and just snuggle in the corner with another girl? How many condoms do I need to buy? Do I worry about sizes? Am I suppose to provide drinks? Really, how long should I plan for this? Do I offer to meet everyone before the party?

I am planning to meet one couple before the party. It seems to be that she is looking for a regular play partner to boot. This may finally be my chance to have a girl with benefits! Now I just gotta find some time to sneak away. Her and her bf are night owls. Much later than when I usually go out.

Riv has been an absolute support. He is an angel. I'm sure he'll be my rock when this party gets closer.

I haven't heard from any blogger that want to possibly join in or even visit :( Anybody out there??

Oh, NOW he wants to play!

While I'm reading up and things, I suddenly see a chime on one of my IM's from "Pat".


Haven't seen or heard from him since he blew me off just before one or two parties ago.*
Suddenly he's talking about his new girlfriend and how she wants to be part of the action, and that I'm the only one with balls enough to do it.


"Are you sure you can make it this time?" I asked.  It was a legitimate question.  He's bailed on me just before 3 other parties for one reason or another which usually involving a wife having issues.**


"Sure! SHE is okay now, I can do pretty much what I please and doesn't ask questions."  They were swingers at one point, so she must know he found someone else.
"Are you sure?  She's not just going to be a wall flower, will she?"
"I'm sure she's down for some watching and maybe a threesome or more!"


But I got another party I'm prepping and then there is a bit of my financial setback; One party isn't that big of a deal, but right now, two is going to be a bit of trouble.

"I'll help with the costs.  Really."   Yeah, right. He lives paycheck to paycheck making the middle 6-six figures and I loan HIM money occasionally. 
"Why don't I believe you?"  Surely he could detect my skepticism in my typing.
"I will! I'll pay for the hotel room!"
Whoopie.
I'm excited.
Can't you tell I'm excited?
Yes I am.
After a few some thought, I agree.

"Okay, I'll do it."
"Can we make it this weekend??"
WTF? Unless my life is cruising craigslist, these things can take at least a month!
"Umm...no. I was thinking January."
"Why so long?"  I explained to him what had happened.
"Oh. that sucks.  Whenever you think. We're ready."

Screw him.
I'll plan the party, but only because I want something local, fun, and get together with Katygirl.
IF he decides to show up...great. If not, not big deal.



*His "wife" would pretend or over exaggerate her health issues to just get him home.  I called her out about it once after I was her caregiver to give Pat a break.  She would call him complaining and I'd immediately call back telling him to stay where he's at to relax.  Bitch.
**I used to swing with them many years ago.  Oh the stories I could tell! Some of them involved "Holly." But that's for another time.   I'm sure you don't want to hear about too many of my old stories!

Preping for Party...

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Masturbation Monday

Monday is here upon us again and I have been scouring the web for a clip for everyone :)




I was feeling in a girl girl mood and I came across this. Let me warn you that the first couple of minutes are just dumb but it gets better. I promise! What got me hooked was the fingering at the beginning. I love the non-traditional toys that they are using in here! The thigh dildo is delicious! They went from that to this purple thing. Watch and you shall see. I want one of those! It would feel soooo good! By the time I hit the double ended dildo at the end, I was done. Didn't do much for me there.

Now I dare you to try and not get turned on by this!

Party Favor!!

Riv said on an earlier post that he is takin his show on the road for a "party." Well I get to be the party favor!! Wahoo!!

This is a huge first for me. I'm excited and a bit apprehensive. The search for guests has begun. It's a bit of a daunting task but he's doing a lot of it. There are guys coming out of the woodwork who want to join us. I don't want to be the only chick there!

During this planning time I plan to post specific thoughts and fears. This is going to be one hoot of a time!

Riv and I have discussed it and we would like to invite some of the blog world to join us. We just have the criteria that you are a blogger and that you've had your blog more than a couple months. If you are interested, email Riv or me and we will let you know the general area that this party will take place in. I hope you do join us!!

Hitting the road....and my 100th post!

Just realized this is the 100th post on this pathetic blog!
With a landmark post, here is a landmark announcement:

I have an opportunity I haven't had in a LOOONG time.

I'm going to take my show on the road (so to speak) by hosting a party in a different part of the country.  Already the various posts are out looking for people.  I'm not going to say where just yet, but I will say that it's not going to be on the East, West, or Southern coasts.
Just saying that in the off chance one of my ten regular readers might be from a particular state I am hosting in.
Since this is a major production, I'm going to call this show the "Glands across America" show.
Yeah. It's lame, but so am I.

You'll get more details soon, I promise!

Shopping List

I need to replace the bag that I lost back in August, which represented a serious loss ropes, dildos, lubes, plugs, rope, blindfolds, clothespins, a couple of clamps, two paddles (rarely used them), and assorted items.

There has been an unexpected development, which I will share with you in the future, that necessitated for me to hurry up and replace items that can be easily transported and it won't be TOO heavy.

This is my "To do" list on what to buy:

A pair of nipple clamps.
1 Dildo with suction cup.
1 Ordinary Dildo.
1 Vibrator/ing Dildo.
2 anal plugs.
1 Ball gag.
Assorted foot and hand restraints.
50 ft of nylon rope.
1 pussy hand pump   Check!

1 clit hand pump.
1 (2?) nipple pump(s).
Several to be named medical equipments.


So far, I think this is going to weight about 25 lbs...maybe 30.
Give or take, it looks like I will be hitting every leather shop and adult bookstore in the city.  I hate buying toys online, I like to hold the item. :)
I'm hoping that this will be able to be "travel friendly" if I take away a few items for flying, but I doubt it.
Anyone has any suggestions for this?

I'm also open to toy suggestions as well. :)

Masturbation Monday!

Yay!! It's that time of week again to rub your best friend!

Hot Lesbian Nurses With Ass Toy

I couldn't find the link here to embed it so just click and enjoy!

I'm obviously on a nurse theme lately. I just really liked the toy action in here. Usually it's a dildo of some sorts but these toys sure do look like butt wands to me. Seeing them go so nicely into their slick asses was mouth watering. Just when I thought we were done, then they switch and the naughty nurse gets hers. Complete with ass licking! OMG, I love me a good ass licking!

Enjoy and rub one out for me!

Puppy love poll

The poll itself was quite intriguing in its results.

I do it regularly!	4 (12%)
I've done it once.	3 (9%)
I've Fantasized about it, and might do it.	1 (3%)
I've fantasized about it, but I'll never do it.	2 (6%)
I'm okay with it and I'll watch or participate.	2 (6%)
I'm okay, but I'd never watch.	0 (0%)
If you're okay with it, fine, but not for me.	5 (15%)
No. I don't think so.	16 (48%)

I'm not entirely sure how accurate the poll is compared to the email I got, but the difference isn't that far apart.
But I would not mind hearing from the those that might be inclined to participate.
Strictly to compare notes, of course.

Sharing videos...

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