The final 48*

48 hours from now,  I will be just landing at the super secret location on a partial mission to have a nice little party.
For the next two days, I will be even more busy than usual since I have things I need to take care of, things to buy and prepare for.
The final emails are being prepared and the confirmations need to be sent out.
So far, the weather here has taken a bit of a turn with it being in the 60's, the first time in over 9 months it's been this cold, and as a typical Southerner, I welcome the cold, but I want it a BIT warmer.  It's unfortunate that I will be heading towards a colder climate and I hope my trusty trench coat will keep wind at bay.

One other "Task" that needs to be done is for me to complete my date with Katygirl for an opera.  FF can't make it due to previous obligations, but was quite cool with it.
We shall see.

Seems that Starfish is sitting on pins and needless in our pending meeting/gangbang. 
regardless of what happens, it should prove to be an interesting next few days.


*That is a nod to a blogger friend that has disappeared, I do miss you.

The world turned Grey

I've been running like mad for several weeks, so crazy as a matter of fact, poor starfish had to take up the slack on doing things for the upcoming party. 
For the first time, we sat back and watched tv "together" in a Grey's Anatomy marathon while we both did laundry.

We had different reasons for watching Grey's; My poor TiVo has been running at the brim with multiple episodes of several series I've been running to the point that it was getting full.  She hasn't had a chance to watch it because of her schedule for the most part, but for some reason, felt motivated when I mentioned MY little marathon.

After several hours of doing this (and she also did her share of laundry), she made the comment how we are sad couple of people to be doing this on a Sunday.

The only response I could muster was:

"Simple. It's what we need."

She readily agreed. 
Sometimes we simply get so busy running around in our lives trying to do so much, we just need to breathe.

Excuse me now, I have another load to do.

Party updates, frustrations, and realizations...

Not too long ago, Starfish and I have made three crucial decisions:

• When.
• Where.
• What kind of party.

The where and when is something I'll let Starfish reveal in due time, but to be honest with you, I'm ITCHING to let you know.  Believe it or not, I enjoy throwing Bi-Parties.
As I may have explained before, Bi parties are generally more successful and easier to put together because even if no women show up, the men can all have some fun.*  In this case however, to be totally honest, Starfish has a strong indication will attend the party.**


As it currently stands, she seems to be doing quite a bit of the workload when it comes to the various ads, screenings, and emails and putting people at ease.
It seems that she has come to understand why I only throw these parties together semi-regularly, but also seems to know the fun and frustrations of doing so.  
There seems to be an added benefit of her potentially finding a female playmate before and after the party, but there seems to be some red flags that we talked about.  Of course people that initially seem to be flaky might surprise you in the end, but it's better to have your guard up and be pleasantly surprised than to be crushed for not seeing it ahead of time.

Now that I'm thinking about it, I guess I better get creative and post a few more ads. 


*except me, being the straight one.  But I just have fun throwing them. go fig.
**Not doubting her NOT showing up, but stuff happens. Either way, the party will continue.

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Tandem Porn Watching! Taking phone sex one step further!

 Starfish and I usually email each other on various topics ranging from work, family, traffic, weather, and a considerable amount of time on Sex.

As she had touched upon before, when we are both available, we like to, what we call, "Tandem Porn watching".
Basically what this involves is our exchanging links to various websites to watch while we chat.

Initially, she sent a email of a VERY naughty photo that I got on my phone. That caught my immediate attention.  I wish I can share it, but here is a description of it:  Her laying on her side, with what looked (to me) like a large black vibrating dildo in her ass. It was immediately followed by this link:


http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=7f8e12771921dec0ee19


I sent her a simple msg:  "Gimme a sec, I'm going online" and waited impatiently for my connection to come through. 


Here is a bit of our conversation in chat, misspellings (note they are all mine) and all.



me:  hey baby.

 Starfish:  hey sexy 

 me:  nice vid baby.

 Starfish:  you like that one hun?

 me:  yep. you?

what are you watching now?

 Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=33347227

 me:  in an anal mood, hmm?

 Starfish:  want me to turn on the vibrations?

 me:  in a bit, I'll want to hear you first.

Just sit down hard on it, baby

 Starfish:  mmm...comfy

 me:  yeah, if I was there, I'd slowly fuck you with that plug.

 Starfish:  i'd want your cock more..

 me:  yeh, but I'd want you to come a few times first.

 Starfish:  ambitious  boy

 me:  Very, I'd like to see you take it before I fill up your ass with my cum

 Starfish:  mmm

yes sir

 me:  take it out nad put it in, baby

 Starfish:  mmmmmmm

yes sir

 Sent at 9:35 PM on Tuesday

 Starfish:  ohhh yeah 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=8d6fceab0d27b183079f

 Sent at 9:36 PM on Tuesday

 me:  OMG, that's nice, baby

 did you like how it felt?

 Starfish:  i want to squirt so bad

oh yeah....

you got any porn you'd like to share?

 me:  Want to do it again, baby?

Nah you pick good stuff. LOL.

 Starfish:  i'm just enjoying it right now sweetie...I'm sooo fuckin horny!!!

 me:  I pick out some pretty vanilla stuff compared to you.

 Starfish:  see..I am a freak!

 me:  I wanna blog about this session, though. 

 Starfish:  yes dear 

 me:  You want to cum, baby?

 Starfish:  i do sweetie..but i want you on the phone when i do..

 me:  put it in and out of you, darling....and not slowly.

 Starfish:  a little painful there

 me:  I know.

 Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1381030782

 me:  Oh...I love that.

Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=92d1b0e19656875ee557

 me:  Yummy..

This had to be done in the early 90's.

 Starfish:  most likely

 me:  Still nice.

 We continued talking about the various videos and what was turning us on and watched the following:

 Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=e3fc68903321ffdbea12

Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=b1f804e302e0e0423190

I finally am able to call her hotel and we continue the conversation from there, where we talked a bit dirty for a few minutes until I heard the most satisfying orgasm that seemed like it would have woke up the neighbors.

After recovering a bit, we shared one more before I had to run and take care of a few things:

Starfish:  http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1423728783

We hung up and I felt quite sated hearing a woman orgasm.   It's almost as good as cumming myself, I think!

I highly recommend Tandem Porn watching.  It can be a great deal of fun!

EDIT:
Just for grins, I'd thought I'd post her general area, since she's only staying there for a day or so.

Guest blogger...

I mentioned her briefly in a previous post, and it seems like she took up my offer to be a guest poster for awhile until I get a bit more active.

One of the reasons she took me up on the offer is to be more candid than she was on her own blog.   I have given her full freedom to discuss whatever is on her mind and stated, much to my surprise about her REAL kinks.

I will still be posting as I get more active, but real life has intruded a bit, so I won't be posting as much or on a different topic for awhile.

In the meantime, Welcome and Enjoy "Starfish!"

Going off Half Cocked...

I have a particular fondness for a particular brand of slacks.

They're roomy, they're very wel made and I heart them.
Having recently discovered they made SHORTS, I was there....but I also discovered how roomy they are! Talking to a fellow blogger, Starfish, about my loving these shorts, I showed HOW roomy they were....So she wound up convincing me to put this today.  My only (I believe) HNT!

Enjoy it.
Or not.

When bloggers collide..

Over the past couple of weeks, a certain blogger (who I will refer to as "Starfish.") has contacted me, for what I believe is just a friendly chat in email.
No big deal, and our conversations delved into sex, relationships, our blogs and such.  It was a thrill for me to find someone I can talk to someone frankly about our various adventures and frustrations.  She was very intrigued on what happens "behind the posts" and got some juicy information.

We then got to talking about phone sex, online erotica and such.
The more we talked about it, I started to crave a bit for phone sex.  A lot.
Having decided to put an ad for phone sex, I didn't even get a nibble.


After I had relayed this to to her a bit, she shared how frustrated on how her promised encounter didn't pan out as well.


We were talking about some scenarios that got us both worked up.
"Can I call you?", I finally asked.
"Sure, wait a bit before you call, I want to get the toys out."  She quickly responded, relaying the proper information.

I pulled over to a discrete part of the gas station I was at and partook in a very hot session.  From what I could tell she had a very satisfying time and with a few well worded phrases, she got me over the edge.

We hastily had to end our phone conversation, but it most definitely took the edge off.
Later on in chat, I told her that I looked forward to more conversations like that.

A Public Service Announcement...

My heart stopped when I read this at A Secret Freak's Blog;  for those that aren't regular readers, I figure I would put this up for those that may read: "The World is a Playground" blog:

I have some news, about a fellow blogger. I do not know who might already know about this, but I am going to share anyway.

Colly, The World is a Playground, was in a terrible motorcycle accident.

I had emailed him to check on his whereabouts and the following is a return email from him.

I was in a motorcycle accident and was in the hospital for a little
while, I'm more or less immobile, and bed ridden right now. I am
almost completely dependent on my wife at the moment so it's next to
impossible for me to use the computer without her near me.

Be sure to keep him in your thoughts, I will pass along any more information, as I get it.

Also, I will forward all of your comments to him. I am sure he will be appreciative of all thoughts, prayers and comments..

But given the nature of our respective blogs, the odds are quite high that his spouse doesn't know about the blog...so use your own judgement, until he gets better, but I would request that people casually mention this on their respective blogs.

Additionally, this would point out that there are a number of reasons why we may not post for for a period of time, or stop altogether.