The night before....the nerves begin.

The time for the party is close, but I will tell you about it after the fact.

But the nerves are already there.  I have peppered this entire region with ads.
I decided to make this into a two day event.  Starfish is thrilled and nervous about the whole thing.
Seems like the men, for the most part have been fairly well behaved, no overt "douche'-ness".  The same thing can't be said for Starfish, though.  Her ads seem to have been a total magnet for that species of guy.

So far spunky is also supposed to show up, as of right now the tally is the following:
 
2 girls and about 8 guys.  Here's to hoping I don't wind up with another threesome again. :(

Fishing randomly and catching Jennifer.

Things have been very quiet here, and if you had read this blog with any regularity (first of, sorry), you know that I had to take a bit of a break in my activities.
This is not to say that I have been up to SOME mischief.  I've been getting the itch for another party.
Bad.
Really bad.
Since I didn't quite have the resources to throw another one for several months, I figured a few CL ads and try to put out feelers for people that have an interest in it and willing to talk about it might help.

Got a total of maybe 6 proper responses from TWO different cities. Three immediately dropped off, possibly by them being bored of me, or were expecting something totally different. 
Whatever.
Two are local girls; One has had fantasies about it, but is in a troubled marriage and other issues.  She doesn't know about the blog.  I gave her an option and she will (eventually) make a decision, but in the meanwhile we're making good conversation overall.
Another of major interest is from one that I posted on the Chicago CL.
A woman about my age responded and was saying that she had done multiples in her youth, but didn't give any details (damn!), but continued to talk about a few topics here and there and told her about the blog.

Suddenly, she informed me that she responded to an ad in her area and sent me the following story:

I got an email back this morning saying he was game and we agreed to meet at a parking lot not far from where I live.  Its a big lot and we agreed to meet at the far end where its never used for privacy.  He was there when I showed up and before he got out of his car, I knew my first time was going to be fine. 
He was pretty good looking, tall, about 6'3" I'm guessing, and average build.  So I pull up and park next to him and he gets out of his car and he comes around to the passenger side of my car and I let him in.  He is wearing shorts and a t shirt, he was fresh from the gym so that explains the gym clothes.  He gets in and introduces himself to me and we shake hands.  I spy him look at my cleavage while we made small talk.
I wore a low cut, tight blouse that is really too small for me, so  I'm sure he could even see my nipples through the bra and blouse.  After 5 minutes or so, he says, "Are you ready then?"  I said if he was then I was too.  He reached for the waistband of his shorts and pulled them down and out of the way.  His cock was already somewhat hard and I'd guess about 7 inches long.  He was shaven and that is the first shaved cock I had seen in real life.  I just stared at it for a moment until he asked if anything was wrong.  I said no and slowly reached out to touch it.  Once my fingers touched it, he flinched alittle, but then I wrapped my hand around his shaft and took in his beauty.  I literally could feel him swelling in my hand more so I slowly started to stroke him.  He reclined the seat to get more comfortable and I turned to get better access and was able to use both my hands.  I went at it slowly at first and he seemed to be enjoying it. 

Then his phone rings, he looks at it and say's "Shit, my wife." 
At this point I'm figuring he is going to want me to quit but he motions for me to keep going and be quiet.  I can actually hear her voice through the phone and he is trying to get her off the phone. 
I just keep stroking away until he finally gets done.
Once off the phone he relaxes some more. 
His eyes were closed and he was moaning softly.  A few minutes went by and I could tell by his breathing he was getting close so I picked up the pace some.  He asked if he could cum and I said thats what we are here for so.
All of a sudden he let out a loud moan and the first of many spurts of cum shot out.  I kept stroking as long as he was cumming and he came alot.  Must have been 5 or 6 powerful blasts, then smaller ones.  Because of the way I was holding him, most of it landed on my forearms, hands, and some on the center console of my car.   None on my clothes!!!  Yay!
After he was done, he sat back up to see what I had done to him and he apologized for getting me.  I told him I was prepared for that and as he was looking at me I licked my fingers off.  I hadn't planned on doing that but got caught up in the moment.  He tasted alright too. 
I handed him some tissues to clean himself up and I wiped my hands and arms off.  He pulled up his shorts, asked me if I would be interested in doing that again and I said maybe.  We said our goodbyes, and I left.  Just got home an hour or so ago.

Emailing a bit more, she dropped off the face of the Earth.
No responses to any of my casual "hi's", so I figured she dropped off the face of the earth and blew me off.

Not until I got the next letter....

Preping for Party...

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Poll! and an update.

I got nothing going on at the moment, but I'd thought I'd add a poll for a bit of curiousity.

The only option I've put on there is "watching", the "participation" thing would have been too much of a pain, but if you want you can comment on it.

If there are any other variations you'd see/participate in, then feel free to let me know.

Additionally, I'm have another party in the works, but instead of the Bi-Party, I might throw together another gangbang for an out of towner coming in on business.

Yeah, I know.  I'm charitable that way.  :)

Shygirl, Katy, and Lumens

Well, Shygirl lived up to her name.   I had recieved a text from her 3 hours before meeting and cancelled.
"I don't know if I'm ready for that."
I sent her an email saying that I understand and to keep me in mind for the future.

While typing up this letter, another came in.  
She was inquiring about the Bi-Party and was wondering if she could be included in the next one.
OF COURSE she can!  "Katy" described herself as a BBW (ARGH!), and sent pictures.
HEY! I remember her, she took part in my survey!  She was a bit skeptical until I forwarded her email to me.  After that, we seemed to get along fine.   She seemed quite interested in the other parties and was particularly proud of her oral skills and being a bit of a submissive.
Bring it!
Our schedules are a bit off kilter of each other, but we figure we can try for a late night Sunday meeting or sometime this week.
I give her a bit more credibility as she seems to be the geniune article, but again, we'll see.

Previously, I had mentioned Lumens only briefly.
Well, we've been emailing frantically with eachother.  Later that night, we sent pictures and some slight flirting.
She had lived out on the West side of town and I was (at the time) Located in the far east when she said she wanted to meet.
We met at a moderately priced hotel that was a relatively in the middle of the both of us. I got off the phone and walked inside and waited until she drove up a couple of minutes later.
Was greeted by a Thin woman with black hair, glasses, and appeared plain looking.
NEVER trust first appearances. 
We shook hands and talked for a few minutes and waited for a signal.
"Did you get your room yet?"
I guess that's the signal.
Having corrected that situation, we went to one of the higher floors, dropped our clothing, opened the drapes, turned on the lights, and proceeded some of the most hurried sex I've had in awhile.
There is something to be said about female orgasms; it's not fair.
Now, its not to say that it was BAD sex, it just wasn't really worth noting. At least, not round one.
Laying on the bed, we casually looked out the window to the freeway below.
Turns out she's my age, single, has a modest job in the area, and hasn't had a date in a year.  She explained to me how tough it was to meet men that just didn't seem to flake out or simply gave her the impression she was nothing but a slab of meat.
She found my reassuring voice, humor, and talkative style reassuring enough that she didn't want to blow her chance on getting laid.
After a few minutes, she got up from the bed and went to the window.
"Can they see in?", She asked.
"No doubt."  The sun has long since set, and the lights inside the room illuminated her from behind giving me a view of her slim figure.
She extended her arms and legs as if for a long overdue stretch, when I realized she was now leaning against the window and looked back.
"Want to give them a show?"
Without a word, I went up behind her, dropped to my knees and proceeded to eat her pussy for several minutes. She was enjoying this bit of exhibitionism quite a bit, judging by how wet she was.
Slowly, I raised kissing up her back to her neck and she sensed my cock was at the right angle, simply ground into me until I entered her.  I pushed her more and more into the glass, to the point that breaking through became a real possibility with me (I have a slight fear of heights). Fortunately for me, her orgasm picked that precise moment to make its appearance and collapses in my arms.
Being thankful for her slight build, I carry her to bed and cover her with kisses, which is rewarded by a hail of giggles from her.
I love women when they giggle.  It's a weakness.
We stay in bed for another couple of hours, chatting away about things she always wanted to do and some of fantasies she's open to until I realize I need to go to an appointment and she has to get ready for work in the morning.  She makes the comment that we need to do this again sometime and I heartily agree.
Walking arm in arm out of the lobby, I walk her to her car and give her a hug and watch her leave.
Heading towards my car, I realize she is going to be fun.   While she isn't looking for a relationship, she can definitely be a party girl.

One, Two, Threesome!

Well, over the past couple of weeks, I had put up a couple of ads on CraigsList looking for someone interested in a Threesome.
What?  Another threesome?
Yeah, I'm weird that way. Sorry.
After sorting through the spam and flakes, I got two responses that seemed Genuine: Lumens and Shygirl.
Lumens hasn't gotten further than the email stage but seems anxious  Whatever.
Shygirl sent some photos and, once again, she used BBW to describe herself, when in reality, she just had a little extra weight.  I REALLY hate that description., but I'll leave it be.
She started calling my CL phone after only a few emails.   She was a bit quiet and can almost hear the phone shaking.
I start off with some light banter, make a snotty remark about New Year's Eve, and such.
Eventually she started opening up a bit and started asking me questions that everyone seems to ask.
"Why are you doing this?" She finally found her voice.
"Because it's fun!"  It's true, why lie?
"Well, I kinda' figured that, I don't know why I asked."
"Maybe you wanted to see how unoriginal I can be.  Did I live down to it?"
"Yes you did."
"Case settled."
She was curious on when it can be done and I said let's do a meet and greet to put her at ease and show that I'm not a psycho, and that way she can walk away while she still has her clothes on.
Don't ask.  Old story.
We set a meeting on Friday (Later today) at 4pm. Since it's close to where "Pat" lives,   If things work out, we can have a threesome by the end of next week!
Of course, it'll depend on how things work out tomorrow.

Yes, Virgina, there are girls on CL!

I'm not entirely sure how to write this post, so it may seem less intelligible and more meandering than usual.

A few days ago, A gentlemen made a post surveying several men and their success on CL and what became of it. It seems that the men have been having a horrendous time having any success at meeting women that are desirable.

The Data used was very suspect as it was listed as so:


I received 52 different replies to my original post. Out of the 52, only 5 men reported to have actually met normal/attractive women or had good results from CL.


Here are some of the common comments from the other 47 men who replied and have not had any luck yet:

I emailed the guy and questioned his results and decided to put up similar a similar post that I targeted towards women that went something like this:

Have you responded to an ad?:
Were you able to continue the relationship until meeting? and did it continue from the initial meeting?
Did you stop responding to the person you answered the ad for? And why and after how many emails?
Did he stop responding to emails?
Was a photo sent initially?
What kind of photo was sent, (Portrait, crop from family, self portrait, etc) and was it a torso, facial, bikini, etc?
If you put up an ad, please answer the same questions as above.
What was the initial form of contact? Phone call? Meet at Starbucks? Restaurant?
After the initial meeting, what was the conclusion of the meeting?
Relationship, open relationship, dating, sexual only? 

I gotten quite a few responses (of which I'll eventually post), but one of which I got from an intriguing lady who said that has more to discuss than can be covered in a simple letter.

After some initial texts, she finally called and had a most fascinating conversation:
She had been on CL for at least 2 years and answered quite a few ads of a sexual nature, including, threesomes, spankings, and rough sex.

After another date (Eh), I texted her if she was up for that beer.   She sent back that she was more than ready that her date turned out to be a dud and was itching to get away.   I was at a small bar in the heights and she arrived shortly after.   She was a very attractive woman, with long flowing black hair and a sweater that showed quite a bit of cleavage.
I wasn't there to flirt, but simply get info and boy, did she provide it for me! 
She spun a tale of a number of men that she met over the past few years, how she vetted the men along several levels from the initial letters, phones calls, meetings, to sex.   VERY fascinating stuff, but it is a pity I can't elaborate more, or else someone might take advantage of the information once they realized she is the same woman.  She was even answering ads on her phone while talking to me!

The more she talked, the more I was fascinated by her, but I guess she didn't find me that interesting and proceeded to mingle with the staff, whom she already knew previously.   Looking at my watch, it was about 10:00pm and she was going to take her last drink before calling it an evening.  I closed my modest tab, shook her hand, and headed my way home...

As I was opening the door to my apartment, my phone rang and I answered it without looking at it.
"Hi Baby! Wanna come over to play?"
It was KM!
"Sure, text me your address and I'll be right over."
20 minutes later, I was back in the Heights.....but that's for another post.

Sparks fly after the AC/DC concert.....

I answered an ad that a woman put out a few months ago.
She seemed incredibly shy, but she eventually got her voice in describing what she wanted.

Her thing was to see a man masturbate while she did the same.
We met up initially at a big mall to get to know each other.  I wasn't in a hurry since I figured this might fall apart and I didn't know if I would be her "type."  But we got along well enough that she wanted to go do something in the mall parking lot!
Not having anticipated this, I had to back out due to another engagement, but I assured her that it was something I was interested in.   To show good faith, I gave her a number to call.

I call that my "Craigslist phone."  Every CL cruiser should have one.
Maybe I should market one...hmm...

She called this past weekend to see if I was available since the stars aligned and her kids were away.  She was unable to join me at my party on that friday and I was busy on Saturday.  I told her I COULD see her on Sunday night, but I had a concert I had already committed to. Since she was taking the next couple of days off, she was okay about waiting up late.

Fast forward to Sunday night.  Right when the band stopped singing, "For those about to Rock", I sent a text msg to let her know I was leaving and we'd meet where had discussed earlier.

She parked her car in the strip mall as I was coming out of the store.   She hopped into the back just as I reached the rear passenger door.  She was already in the process of unbuttoning the lower half of her dress when I climbed in, and I immediately undid my jeans and brought out my cock.

Now remember, this is in front of an exposed strip shopping center in a busy little neighborhood with no tinted windows, we were totally (and literally) exposed. The size of her car certainly made things rather intimate as we literally.  Note the location.

We did little talking as she focused on my increasing erection and I was just looking at her slowly rubbing her clit.
We continued this for a few minutes, then  I saw her licking her lips as some of my precum came out, reached out with her free hand and rubbed it on her thumb before placing it on her tongue.
Having slowed down my approaching orgasm was greeted with some disappointment as she was getting closer to hers and asked me to continue my pace as she casually picked up another dab of precum.
After Ten more minutes, she had already climaxed once, resulting to her squirting on her back seat, that had already sent me over the edge and I was starting my own orgasm and was trying to contain it when I saw her hand suddenly close over mine and told me to "let it happen."   My cum didn't shoot very far, due to the grip, but most of it landed on her arm and hands.
Her facial expression was one of one in a complete state of bliss as she raised her hand to her lips and proceeded to lick our combined juices.

"I thought you didn't want physical contact?"
"I didn't, I just couldn't help myself."

I couldn't find a reasonable response to that.
She proceeded to button up her dress and thanked me for a fun evening climbed into the front of the car as I was getting myself composed.

The car door barely slammed closed when she put it in gear and backed out.

Twenty minutes later, I got a txt telling me she was about to go on a masturbation marathon and that we need to do this again.

This has been one of the more interesting CL meetings.

Bizarre 24 hours.

The day started out with quite a bit of promise, yet at the time I am currently writing this at 5am, is because it is amazing on how odd the turns in the world of craig's list can go.
Waking up early (for me) at 8am, I tumble out of bed and start running errands in preparation for tomorrows party.  I check my email briefly..nada.
Great.
Aside from a slight interlude in my day for a date that is related to this.
After I left, I had gotten an email for the ad. 
"I'm a tranny, can I come to watch?"
WTF?
Giving her (what DO you call a pre-op tranny?) my number , we talked for a bit, turns out she had already had the boob implants, and by looking at the pictures, she was cute. 
I allowed it, but warned her that if the guys aren't comfortable, she might have to leave.  She was cool with that and was pleased that we had the conversation..
awesome.  Never had one at a party, so this should be interesting, especially if she joins in.

Now I come to a girl that bailed out on me for last week's party.
I get an email at 3am asking where I was because she wanted to have some screw.
Since I was relatively close (and on my way home), I told her I could be there in 30 minutes.
Arriving to a modest apartment complex on the north side, I arrived at her apartment number and saw her through the gap substantial gap in her window shades.   The visual was interesting; somewhat larger woman, sitting on the couch watching a porn movie.
No wonder she was horny!
Lightly knocking, I was wondering what I was getting myself into.
She must have teleported to the door because it opened almost instantly.
My ears caught a buzzing sound, but I couldn't quite place it, until I saw her walking off towards the couch and spotted a cord coming up from under her the hem of the dress she was wearing to her hands.
Vibrating egg.  Gotcha.
She then plopped herself back down on the couch and motioned for me to suck on her breasts.   Not a man to waste an opportunity and proceeded to lightly lick her nipples.  Getting closer to her neck, I the fragrance of alcohol permeating through her skin.
Aw shit!  This either can go REALLY well or turn out REALLY bad!
We fooled around a bit, when she turned over and leaned over the arm of the couch and pointed to the table.
"My vibrator is over there."
Getting the vibrator, I proceeded to tease her with it as well as putting little kisses on her ass.
"Will you hurry up and push it in?"
O.K.
I followed her instructions and right when her breathing was getting more rapid I encouraged her to cum.
"Will you shut up? You're throwing me off."
Man! this lady was pushy!
I continued for a couple of minutes until my arm got tired of the odd position and stopped.
"You were doing it wrong anyway."

Now, just to let you know, this WAS our entire conversation other than the typical "HI."   I'm getting no cues, from her, nothing.  She's a tough read. Then the next sentence totally threw my game.

"Why didn't you fuck me when I was bent over?"
"Umm..because you didn't say so?  I figured you wanted to just use the vibrator."

By this time we were back to sitting on the couch, sans dress and encourages me to suck her nipples again.
I gave it a try for a bit, then I noticed her breathing was steady.
She was asleep!
Looking at my watch, it was almost 5am!
I zipped myself back up and walked out.   Before I had even reached the car, I deleted her text msgs, her phone number, and craved a shower.

Oh, to top it all off, my buddy "PAT" isn't going to make it. 
This night has the potential of some serious suckage.

Maybe I'll try my hand at birdwatching as a hobby.

Snobbery, Sanity, and Snow?

Yes.
Snow. Here in Houston.
This really has a tendency to put a crimp into my plans for making arrangements this week.
My initial plan was to simply head on home, answer emails, make a post or two, answer some phone calls to try to make this party a success.
By the time I get home, I'm frantic, annoyed, and somewhat dismayed by the lack of time I have been able to devote to this and I'm getting stressed.  Isn't a hobby supposed to be so you can RELAX? 
For some idiot reason, I schedule doctor appointments just before my parties and my blood pressure is through the roof.  He's convinced I have blood pressure.
When I have a friend check it AFTER a party, she just says that its normal, but that SHE needs a shot afterward.

A result of this, I actually have to share what one of my posts looks like.  I know I promised to myself (and maybe you) that I wouldn't do this, but I have a good chunk of wine in me and I thought it was, depending on your viewpoint, that I have totally gone off my rocker or really gotten into the holiday spirit.  I really don't expect anyone to reply to this but...anyway, here it is:

Show me your exhibitionist side of you.
What is your fantasy along those lines?
Perhaps you want to give us a view?
Whatever you want to share will be just fine.
In Real life or in mail whatever you share,
Believe me when I say, that I will truly care.

Show me your fantasy, and perhaps you will see,
that you may be able to live them through me. 

Okay, this acknowledges the fact that I'm no OEN as far as writing ability, but man, drinking makes it fun.

Maybe after I find a girlfriend who shares my interests it'll be much easier.
Any applicants?

And remember kids, friends don't let friends post when they're drunk.

Bi Party.....

Now that the Gangbang party is over, I can now concentrate on this friday's Bi party. 

Oh Shit!

I've only been able to get about four men!  This doesn't include Pat or "R".  Those two are a party on their own, so I don't have to worry about that. The thing is that I need to contact at least 10 men to assure that 4 would show up, with 15 men being more compatible.

The women situation is even worse, while two are going to show up, only one of them is actually going to participate.
Fuck! Fuck! Fuck!
And not in a good way!

I quickly started putting out a couple of posts on CL and a few other sites.  I immediately get a response and I have him try to call me.  Nothing.
Typical.
Chickenshit.

I know I sound like a broken record (blogger?), but it just amazes me on how many flakes seem to cruise on the internet.
Of course, the kettle might be seen as calling the pot black, while I have NEVER backed down on a date that I've made; it is apparent to me there are those out there that will simply test the waters to see what kind of reactions they will get when they put up certain ads.

HEY MORONS!  Yes, people DO answer those ads with hopes of meeting people!  Yes, there ARE real ads that will get you laid if you simply follow instructions!

while I (kinda') pledged that I would keep this blog (relatively) picture free (sorry, I'm not attractive enough for HNT), I'm tempted to post the huge number of Cock pics I get on here.

Ohwell, time to sleep and get started on this when I wake up.
It's frustrating as hell at times, but like I said before, everone needs a hobby.

It's my orgy and she'll come if I want to!

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I must be going insane....

Well, I did it.

I started a new party, this one is going to be a "BI" party and put up a CL post accordingly. This will be a bit different by the fact that ladies can come and watch, which more than likely will be actual participants.

That's the way it usually winds up.

On the other party front, my nerves are still on the edge as one woman wants to talk to another. One is iffy because her escort won't be able to make it, and the other is an unknown. While two others are expected to show up, I hedged my bets a bit and put out a new ad for the party.

Ohwell, I guess I'm going to start drinking this weekend, maybe see if I can get a hook up.

ANOTHER party and an update...

Believe it or not, one of my friends is trying to convince me to have an all male party the following weekend. I have to think about it a bit, but a few of the regulars might be more interested in this party, though.


Additionally, I went ahead and set the date and location of the party. the 5th of December. I sent out a bunch of emails informing everyone invited to attend and immediately was greeted by 2 emails of a couple of guys that are declining.

This is the time I start getting nervous.

As the tired old joke goes, "What if they threw an orgy but nobody came?"
I know it's not going to happen, it hasn't happened in the number of parties I have put together, but it is STILL a bit unnerving.

Looking for a few more women....

You know, I just put up another ad for the party that I've been planning. Having been through enough men profiles (70), I had finally decided delete the ad and try to focus on getting another couple of girls. So far the girls are just fine, but I always like to have a bit extra.

The ads from the guys are hysterical, when I wrote the ads I never mentioned what sex I was, yet they all seem to act like I'm female and the men responded in kind.
One of the things that always amazes me is how men always feel like the fewer the wording, the more likely they'll get chosen or if they go out of the specs that I made (in this case 25-45), they seem think that I am casting for a wider net.
No less then 8 men who were 21 (2 being 18!) which I rejected outright. Seems when they are that young, they seem to be a bit too full of themselves and don't play nice with others. The older men aren't quite as bad, and I'll be inclined to include them as long as they don't LOOK old.
I'm fortunate in the fact that I look younger than my age by at least 5 years. That's no fair exaggeration, but enough of about that....

It amazes me how the male half of the species even manages to get laid, but I've gotten the distinct impression that men that troll CL (and other sites) are incapable of proper social interaction, manners, and propriety that women seem to deserve.

Good heavens! Has good manners escaped society completely?

The couple of ladies that DID respond seemed a bit odd, but I'll keep feeling them out and see if their intentions are genuine. On the other hand, I'm sure they are rather suspect with ME! I mean, they don't know me from Adam and putting quite a bit of trust in me that I'm not sort of cad.

Hopefully I can get some "regulars" out of this party, this hunting business sucks.

The women are there......now for the men...

Well, having lined up about 5 women, it is now getting down to looking for the men. I'll probably start the hunt for it in the next few days and see what the crowd is like. I'm picker about the men then the women. For some reason, there always seems to be an overabundance of jerks that try to get in.

This is where the phone interviews come in handy. I have a particularly good knack of picking out the weasels from getting in. I'm not like some of the OTHER gangbangs that CHARGE people $20-100 bucks to come to the party. Mine are free, now if you want to contribute to the room, then that's up to you, but that's pretty much how far it goes as far as "Money" goes.

It also amazes me how some of the guy's behavior is.

For one thing, they're getting laid. Now, I've had some VERY attractive women, but I've also had women that were less than stellar but generally had a just as good an attitude, if not outright enthusasism, for the party.

Some of the guys expect that the women that show up should look like Angelina Jolee. But if they had that kind of option, they wouldn't be at a gangbang to begin with.
MEN! I wonder why women tolerate us sometimes.

Now, you are all (all 4 of you reading this blog) on why it is taken so long to get this started. Simple. As much as I like getting laid and seeing naked women, life has this particularly annoying habit of rearing its ugly head.

Don't like it? Too bad, so sad.

Second round of screenings

As Scorpio so eloquently hinted, it IS time for an update.

I have sent out another round of ads to get a few more women, turns out some of the ones that had previously applied were not serious or were merely curious about about it and would be doubtful in their participation.

Currently there are only 3 seem to be serious and I plan on contacting them for dinner just after Halloween, and will start looking for men in a couple of days.

As I have explained before, due to the flake factor, I always like have more than an excess of people show up, just in case. If not, the more the merrier, I always say.

I have already contacted the hotel and it seems like the original date that I had selected is already full. So I already have to schedule another day, one thing I always wondered about is how it would go on a weeknight, but I guess that will never be since most people work during the week or have other commitments.

Contact!

Well, I had the pleasure of fielding a number of inquiries to my various posts and so far, it seems rather promising. The only thing that is left is for them to trust me enough to give me a call. Of course, I'm going to have a cell phone exclusively for this party that I'll probably activate this weekend.

Yes, I have a cell phone that I use for the use of the parties. One, I don't want people who i've turned down to call me on my work cell at all hours of the day and night, and those that i do want to keep in touch with have my regular cell or email.

A reader (one of maybe 3 that I have) asked if I was planning on sleeping with any of the women that I meet BEFORE the party.
The answer is simply no. I don't plan on it, I just want them to relax and such. But if the chemistry is there I'm not going to dismiss the idea altogether.

The Search.....

After talking to a few friends, I have decided to have another party.

This will be a bit of a twist on what I normally do; What is planned is to have a woman or two be blindfolded with a number of men in the room.

The first step is to find the women and get them comfortable and make them realize I have their safety in mind along with the men being screened in the future.

If enough women apply, then might have them "work" in shifts, or simply enjoy the party without blindfolds.

Party target date: first weekend of November.

Phone Calls and weeding

Well, I sent out an email on saturday for the people that were interested in the party to give me a call. The reason for them giving me a call is simple: I am VERY good at reading people and I can see if they're going to be flakes or not. If they don't call, then I'll just wipe from from the final emails. Out of the 18 people that originally responded, Six people called within 4 hours of my email, including one woman. I figure the majority will call during the week when they can be away from their wives or their significant others.

The phone calls themselves were rather interesting.

One guy seemed to relax when I confirmed who I was, but apparently he didn't want to let his wife knows what he does and whispered in an almost embarrassingly apologetic tone, "I love to take it up the ass and suck cock. Is that okay?"

I almost dropped the phone.

ME:"Umm...sure. that's the point."
HIM:"Oh. okay, just want to make sure it was cool."
ME:"Excellent! I'll email you the final info in a week."

I hung up the phone and started laughing.

You know, I can understand people's apprehension in answering ads for such parties, so I always try to put them at ease. But if you're talking to someone about the topic at hand, for god sakes! We're just having a conversation about a group of men (and a couple of women) that never met before having some great sex!


me: "''lo? This is
him: "Hi...umm...I'm calling about the ad?"
me:"Oh, you mean the orgy?"
I can hear him wince.
him: "umm..yeah."
me: "Cool, thanks for calling back so quickly. You have any questions?"
him: "umm..not right now."
me: "Excellent! I'll send you an email soon about where the party is."
him:"umm...okay. thanks."

The woman that called was quite enthusiastic about the whole thing and was looking forward to getting a gang bang. I think she was more normal than the other guys.