The night before....the nerves begin.

The time for the party is close, but I will tell you about it after the fact.

But the nerves are already there.  I have peppered this entire region with ads.
I decided to make this into a two day event.  Starfish is thrilled and nervous about the whole thing.
Seems like the men, for the most part have been fairly well behaved, no overt "douche'-ness".  The same thing can't be said for Starfish, though.  Her ads seem to have been a total magnet for that species of guy.

So far spunky is also supposed to show up, as of right now the tally is the following:
 
2 girls and about 8 guys.  Here's to hoping I don't wind up with another threesome again. :(

The final 48*

48 hours from now,  I will be just landing at the super secret location on a partial mission to have a nice little party.
For the next two days, I will be even more busy than usual since I have things I need to take care of, things to buy and prepare for.
The final emails are being prepared and the confirmations need to be sent out.
So far, the weather here has taken a bit of a turn with it being in the 60's, the first time in over 9 months it's been this cold, and as a typical Southerner, I welcome the cold, but I want it a BIT warmer.  It's unfortunate that I will be heading towards a colder climate and I hope my trusty trench coat will keep wind at bay.

One other "Task" that needs to be done is for me to complete my date with Katygirl for an opera.  FF can't make it due to previous obligations, but was quite cool with it.
We shall see.

Seems that Starfish is sitting on pins and needless in our pending meeting/gangbang. 
regardless of what happens, it should prove to be an interesting next few days.


*That is a nod to a blogger friend that has disappeared, I do miss you.

Panicking as usual

You know, setting up these parties can be a bit on the stressful side, particularly with some of  flakes I have to deal with from time to time, and I had a few unexpected things come up, they usually turned out okay.  Usually.
Talking about this with another another blogger, she seemed to have simply thought of it as the same thing as when she has a dinner with people. She always frets just beforehand, because of the details involved and worries that no one is going to have a good time.

When I brought up the fact that this was a bit different, then a dinner party, she had to conceed in the fact that there WAS a bit of a difference.

Dinner party, you usually know who's going to show up.
My party, you HOPE the right amount of people show up.

Dinner Party:  Everything is set at a table to eat.
My Party:  The eating involves someone naked having a good time.

To really make my hair stand on end, there is also the small matter that I realized how I only got Six males to come. 
Six.
Is it any wonder why I'm in a panic, considering?

Don't really have to worry about Katy, she's a shoe in, and this will give us a chance to talk seriously about dating.
Of course, there is the small matter of trying to squeeze in all that while other guys are banging her, but whatever.

A Public Service Announcement...

My heart stopped when I read this at A Secret Freak's Blog;  for those that aren't regular readers, I figure I would put this up for those that may read: "The World is a Playground" blog:

I have some news, about a fellow blogger. I do not know who might already know about this, but I am going to share anyway.

Colly, The World is a Playground, was in a terrible motorcycle accident.

I had emailed him to check on his whereabouts and the following is a return email from him.

I was in a motorcycle accident and was in the hospital for a little
while, I'm more or less immobile, and bed ridden right now. I am
almost completely dependent on my wife at the moment so it's next to
impossible for me to use the computer without her near me.

Be sure to keep him in your thoughts, I will pass along any more information, as I get it.

Also, I will forward all of your comments to him. I am sure he will be appreciative of all thoughts, prayers and comments..

But given the nature of our respective blogs, the odds are quite high that his spouse doesn't know about the blog...so use your own judgement, until he gets better, but I would request that people casually mention this on their respective blogs.

Additionally, this would point out that there are a number of reasons why we may not post for for a period of time, or stop altogether.

This is a test....

The night after, KM and I had a late night lunch/dinner at our usual spot and things seemed quite normal.  But there was this specter of doubt that kept raising it's ugly head as to whether or not we're "Compatible."  We went our separate ways. She went off to bed, I went to continue to work...

Normally, I don't let these things bother me, but considering how much I like her, it starts to nag me.

I pick up the CL Phone;
"Hey, how're you doing?" I ask.
"Not bad.  Was hoping you'd call for a little fun tonight."
"Can I come over?"
"Come over and in. Yes.  The door will be open."
Lumens.   I wonder if its a good idea to be with her tonight.  It's just a nagging feeling that it just isn't right.



Walking into her modest home, I casually start taking off my clothes when I spot her coming out of the bathroom and looking at me critically.
"You're not wasting time, are you?" she asks with a bit of an accusation in her voice.
"Umm....was just wondering if you want a quickie."  I'm starting to regret coming here.
"Don't mind it at all, I enjoy your company. How's KM?" 
The comment seemed genuine, but maybe I'm just hyper sensitive, either way, it stopped me cold for a minute.
I walk over and start nibbling her neck and slide off her robe to reveal her body.
Considering we've covered this ground before, we've already gotten rather comfortable with each other and knew how to touch each other.
We went through what we knew the other liked and she quickly reached her first orgasm.
After her third orgasm she got on all fours.
"Want to fuck my ass now Baby?"
She knew I loved it, and so did she.
Getting behind her, she backed into me and steadily shoved herself onto me.
"You like fucking my ass don't you?"
"Oh yeah, baby, you know I love it."
"C'mon, fuck me hard!"
After only a few minutes, I reached orgasm about the same time she did.
We laid down and cuddled while I nibbled her back.

KM immediately came to mind.
Is it the anal sex or the dirty talking?
She doesn't do either, she says she just can't vocalize doing sex.
I stay for an hour and we BS until I had to return to work.

A couple of hours later, KM is on my mind and I kinda' wondered if some bad karma was coming this way because of the last 24hrs.

No sooner had the thought formulated in my head then I heard an audible POP from the back of my car and briefly lost control.

Fuck. A flat, on a cold wet night.
Yay.

It's my orgy and she'll come if I want to!

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I must be going insane....

Well, I did it.

I started a new party, this one is going to be a "BI" party and put up a CL post accordingly. This will be a bit different by the fact that ladies can come and watch, which more than likely will be actual participants.

That's the way it usually winds up.

On the other party front, my nerves are still on the edge as one woman wants to talk to another. One is iffy because her escort won't be able to make it, and the other is an unknown. While two others are expected to show up, I hedged my bets a bit and put out a new ad for the party.

Ohwell, I guess I'm going to start drinking this weekend, maybe see if I can get a hook up.

ANOTHER party and an update...

Believe it or not, one of my friends is trying to convince me to have an all male party the following weekend. I have to think about it a bit, but a few of the regulars might be more interested in this party, though.


Additionally, I went ahead and set the date and location of the party. the 5th of December. I sent out a bunch of emails informing everyone invited to attend and immediately was greeted by 2 emails of a couple of guys that are declining.

This is the time I start getting nervous.

As the tired old joke goes, "What if they threw an orgy but nobody came?"
I know it's not going to happen, it hasn't happened in the number of parties I have put together, but it is STILL a bit unnerving.

Looking for a few more women....

You know, I just put up another ad for the party that I've been planning. Having been through enough men profiles (70), I had finally decided delete the ad and try to focus on getting another couple of girls. So far the girls are just fine, but I always like to have a bit extra.

The ads from the guys are hysterical, when I wrote the ads I never mentioned what sex I was, yet they all seem to act like I'm female and the men responded in kind.
One of the things that always amazes me is how men always feel like the fewer the wording, the more likely they'll get chosen or if they go out of the specs that I made (in this case 25-45), they seem think that I am casting for a wider net.
No less then 8 men who were 21 (2 being 18!) which I rejected outright. Seems when they are that young, they seem to be a bit too full of themselves and don't play nice with others. The older men aren't quite as bad, and I'll be inclined to include them as long as they don't LOOK old.
I'm fortunate in the fact that I look younger than my age by at least 5 years. That's no fair exaggeration, but enough of about that....

It amazes me how the male half of the species even manages to get laid, but I've gotten the distinct impression that men that troll CL (and other sites) are incapable of proper social interaction, manners, and propriety that women seem to deserve.

Good heavens! Has good manners escaped society completely?

The couple of ladies that DID respond seemed a bit odd, but I'll keep feeling them out and see if their intentions are genuine. On the other hand, I'm sure they are rather suspect with ME! I mean, they don't know me from Adam and putting quite a bit of trust in me that I'm not sort of cad.

Hopefully I can get some "regulars" out of this party, this hunting business sucks.

Second round of screenings

As Scorpio so eloquently hinted, it IS time for an update.

I have sent out another round of ads to get a few more women, turns out some of the ones that had previously applied were not serious or were merely curious about about it and would be doubtful in their participation.

Currently there are only 3 seem to be serious and I plan on contacting them for dinner just after Halloween, and will start looking for men in a couple of days.

As I have explained before, due to the flake factor, I always like have more than an excess of people show up, just in case. If not, the more the merrier, I always say.

I have already contacted the hotel and it seems like the original date that I had selected is already full. So I already have to schedule another day, one thing I always wondered about is how it would go on a weeknight, but I guess that will never be since most people work during the week or have other commitments.

Contact!

Well, I had the pleasure of fielding a number of inquiries to my various posts and so far, it seems rather promising. The only thing that is left is for them to trust me enough to give me a call. Of course, I'm going to have a cell phone exclusively for this party that I'll probably activate this weekend.

Yes, I have a cell phone that I use for the use of the parties. One, I don't want people who i've turned down to call me on my work cell at all hours of the day and night, and those that i do want to keep in touch with have my regular cell or email.

A reader (one of maybe 3 that I have) asked if I was planning on sleeping with any of the women that I meet BEFORE the party.
The answer is simply no. I don't plan on it, I just want them to relax and such. But if the chemistry is there I'm not going to dismiss the idea altogether.

What if you threw an orgy and nobody comes?

It's the night before the party, and just like every other party I've thrown, I'm a nervous wreck the night before.

What if no one shows up?

This has never happened and it had always worked out great, but still. I am a major cynic on human nature. People have a tendency to flake out, it's like they can't believe a party like this can exist. I have a tendency to "over invite" people because I know 2 or 3 out of 10 will flake out.

Such contingency plans on my part had headed off some potentially uncomfortable parties, I'm sure. In a couple of cases in which only a few people showed up turned out even better.

This party is going to be a bit different my friends flaked out. They got called out of the country or got the dates mixed up and had made concrete plans.

COME ON! You're going to get SERIOUSLY laid! How can you possibly overlook a date like that? But whatever. I have a regular participant showing up and that will be just fine.