Friday, March 27, 2009

Dealing with suspicous minds

One of the biggest pains with putting up ads is dealing with a huge number of emails and sorting through them.

Quite a few of them are dealing with guys who (justifiably) believe I'm a spammer, or someone trying to pull something over on them.   This is usually tempered fairly quickly by simply emailing them back a request for more information.
Some are a bit taken aback when I give them my CL phone number so we could talk at length.  So far I've been able to convince about eight guys that I'm real.

This then deals with another question I deal with, "What do the girls look like?"
I mean. Really?
Typically, I will simply ask if this is important to them, and if a picture is THAT important to them. As is typical; they will usually back off.
It's not enough that they are actually going to have NSA sex with someone they don't know, they decide they want to see if the girl meets their standards? 

Ten guys that know they will get laid, how much you wanna bet MAYBE five will show?

Oh good lord!

2 comments:

Kimberly said...

Only 50%? (Shakes head.) Now you see the problem us frisky girls have - it is a hard life let me tell you...

Mr Me said...

There has been one time when the men weren't there (October Party), 50% is a GOOD turn out.

The women can be worse at times.

For a bunch of people that want to get laid, they sure are scared of the reality.